Jay Ruiz
No one dies alone.
I show up with presence. I witness with love. I hold space with reverence.
This is my ministry.
I’m a compassionate end-of-life doula committed to walking alongside individuals and families as they navigate life’s final chapter. My work is rooted in the belief that everyone deserves to be seen, heard, and honored—especially at the threshold between life and death.
With a calm presence and open heart, I create space for reflection, release, and connection. Whether through emotional and spiritual support, legacy and life review, pet rehoming assistance, or collaborative end-of-life planning, my goal is to offer comfort, clarity, and dignity to those I serve.
Guided by mindfulness, deep listening, and a reverence for each person’s unique beliefs and journey, I approach this work not as a job—but as a ministry of love and presence.
It is my honor to hold space during one of life’s most tender and transformative times.
The Work We Do
Tanisha Bowman, MSW, LSW, APHSW-C, NEDA Proficient, is a death doula based in Pittsburgh, PA, and a full-time palliative care social worker in a small rural healthcare system. With the support of her dedicated palliative care team, she integrates her passion for death care and open conversations about dying into a traditionally medicalized environment. Her expertise spans multiple areas of end-of-life care, making her a sought-after voice in the field.